What if LOVE is the way?

My love, what if love is the way? I have no idea what I’m going to write here, I only know that this is what is coming through. Recently there have been a few situations where I felt fear and anger but after feeling that on my own, I responded with love.  And it felt so good!

How I did it was I went to the beach for a walk after journaling out my feelings. From there I was trying to get to a place of love and peace but still felt the tight ball in my gut so I started to walk and, rather than saying affirmations for what I am calling in right now, the only thing I could bare to repeat is “I love you X”. X being the person’s name who had incited the fear. And as I walked, I continued to say I love you and I really felt it. Because all we are under our hard exteriors is five-year-old children wanting to be loved and accepted.

Loving this person and drowning out the fear felt expansive and so hard to put into words but in the end, powerful and mature and effective. When fearful thoughts crossed my mind as I went about my day, I repeated “I love you X” and felt it. When the opportunity came to communicate with this person, again I responded with love and I will keep on doing this. I’m not always mature or even tempered but I’m certainly a lot better than before and this situation certainly turned out to be a blessing in disguise, as always.

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Lots of love,

Mireille xx

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What if the feminine is the way?

Friend, the feminine is a topic that I have not written about for five years or so. I had the big brain surgery, the breast cancer had metastasised, and for a long while I wondered if I was wrong and had been mistaken in my beliefs when, actually, She was taking me deeper.

The way, as written by the ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tsu, is living in harmony with nature, in the flow, where nothing is rushed but all is accomplished. The feminine is flow. The feminine is nature. We all have a masculine and feminine side, like the yin yang symbol. The masculine is linear and one of doing, The feminine is one of being. The ebb and flow. And we, through our illnesses and economics and drama, are being invited to rest. How can we do less? That’s the point we have all come to. Isn’t it?

Two weeks ago I came across this video and it made me realise that the steamrolling of my life was the Divine Feminine at play. The feminine is about slowing down and being here now. The feminine is fun and enjoyment. But, just like the Hindu Goddess Kali, She will destroy in order to create again. Just let go. Listen to your heart. What do you love? What is it saying? It is safe to rest. The feminine is the darkness. Can you sit in it? The feminine is intuition.  The body. Love it. Sleep. Listen in.

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On Love…

Hi my love,

The break has been wonderful. Thank you for your understanding. And of course…

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Hope you enjoyed your Xmas and are feeling the new energy of 2017. I felt to come back with a Valentine’s Day message for you because LOVE.

But sometimes (usually) (always) the most loving thing we can do for ourselves is know when it’s time to rest.

So rather than finish this museletter yesterday, I did things, like going to work, napping, having coffee with my sister-in-law at her place and talking to a good friend for an hour on the phone (it was her birthday but it reminded me to do that more often).

For Valentine’s Day I’d planned to take myself to see a French film at the outdoor cinema, but in the end just wanted to rest.

I’ve spent this year still working on simplifying life, time and financial management, sorting out priorities and where I consciously choose to spend energy so that I can fit in everything I want and need to do.

It’s a process.

This year my mantra is Be here now.

This reminds me to enjoy life in the present moment. To be in the present moment. And to come inwards.

It’s a reminder to come back to myself.

When I’ve been too ‘out there’ and ‘on there’.

Just be here now, Mireille.

It feels so real.

For Valentine’s Day I wanted to share with you one of my favourite memes about love.

This one…

While this does represent my relationship goals (the simplicity, presence, appreciation, acceptance and connection expressed in this phrase), it is also perfectly apt for my current relationship with myself.

Paradise is this morning in bed with myself having coffee.

And that, is freedom.

Paradise.

Paradise is this happiness with the present moment, this simple pleasure.

Thank you.

And ‘her’ is also the journal.

This morning in bed with her having coffee.

Writing is my first and enduring LOVE.

I came to her when I couldn’t express my feelings, when I didn’t know how I felt.

Then I’d write, in private.

Later in public. Words were a way to connect. Language brought us together.

Through writing I was able to be my authentic self.

I was able to speak.

But I still go to sleep with the journal by my side and wake up to her in the morning. She is the way I connect.

To you. To myself.

This afternoon I’ll be having a full body scan – bones, pelvis, liver, lungs – and I’ve planned a date at the hospital cafe beforehand with my journal.

I’m really really looking forward to that.

Life unbounded.

Time and space.

The last time I had this scan was on the last day at the hospital – 61/2 months ago – the hardest day of my life – when I was mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually exhausted – and had to do this scan in order to go home.

It felt like I was on a boat at sea with a screen inches from my face, moving, closer and further, closer and further, and me about to vomit. But I couldn’t, because then we’d have to start again and I wanted to go home. So I had to use every method I knew to control my mind… and then some. For the whole 45 minutes.

And still after being wheeled to the room again and my parents weren’t there and the nurse had told me my parents were really worried and I was on that moving boat. For hours, it felt, before they returned and were safe. I worried that something would happen to them in their sleep. Or that they’d have an accident coming back.

Using every mental technique and power to halt the spiral into anxiety, when body and mind were weak with hunger and fatigued from the medication, the operation and all the news of the week.

And after they were back and safe and Vanessa sat on my bed and said “If anything ever happened to you, I would never recover” and I knew. I knew my place in this web of life. I knew I was very much wanted and needed. This is what I knew.

Nothing could happen to me. I had to be here. Now.

There is so much beauty, even on the darkest days.

When the 27 staples had been taken out of my head (with Vanessa still sitting there in front of me on the bed), and all the flowers and cards had been packed onto a trolley, I waited with mum in the foyer while dad brought the car around, feeling like the bionic woman, lucky, strong and utterly exhausted, with a mind not quite mine, to begin life again outside.

X X X

There is a book waiting to come out and it’s time to open my legs and push. I am pregnant with words and stories. I don’t know how it will look. The father is Life. Conceived in experience. Given life through dedication and consistency. Passion, the midwife. Christened into creativity. Raised in love.

To your joy and mine.

Love,

Mireille xxx

p.s.  Please tell me in the comments below how you’ve been and what and who you LOVE.

I’ve simplified and updated my coaching offer and page. If you need me, I’m here. You can also still receive the guides on being Queen of your Love Life here and Loving your Body Beautiful here. To your happiness sweet soul.

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Her journey began at the age of 24 with a break up when she began learning to use the power of my mind to not only quieten the constant chatter and commentary but also to create a fulfilling life, with beauty, creativity, spiritual connection, logic and guidance from within. You can read more of her story here.The coaching relationship is such a beautiful way to create healing and transformation at a practical and very deep level. Peruse her offerings here.

Love, Sex + Miracles : a week in the life of a Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Spiritual Goddess Warrior Queen

Hello beautiful!!

How are you?

I am feeling much better but am going slowly.

I have to.

But I have so many ideas and lots I still want to share with you about relationships and being Queen of your Love Life, plus exciting new projects for later this year on Body Love + Radiance.

All of this is part of being Healthy + Powerfully Feminine.

Being Healthy + Powerfully Feminine means feeling empowered in your relationship to your body, your beauty and men.

It’s feeling beautiful and valuable, inside and out.

It’s knowing that the person you’re with is lucky to be with you – if they’re the right one for you.

This is the non-diva queenly approach to relationships that I go deeper on in my e-book : How To Be Queen of Your Love Life.

This week I got a message from one of the women in this community to say that after a month of being unwell, she feels so much closer to her body.

YES!!

Your body is speaking to you all the time, but sometimes she has to scream when you don’t listen.

Having a great relationship with your body means making aligned decisions (decisions that feel right in body, mind and spirit) and listening in to your intuition – your teachings from within.

And then listening out to the signs and messages you receive from the world around you.

You only have to ask and then pay attention.

Having cluster headaches (apparently this is what I have) is certainly challenging me to go within and do what is absolutely necessary.

While I’ve been unwell, I’ve been learning so much and having so many realizations.

(notice I say ‘unwell’. This is an example of conscious language as I’m still saying ‘well’).

One thing I realized is that I really really missed connecting with you on social media!!

At times I’ve had a love-hate relationship with Facebook in particular.

But I love being able to see what you are doing and feeling and sharing  from my own life and mind too.

That’s what I missed!!

Connection.

The positive side is that I’ve been calling and visiting people a lot more and I’ve started using Facebook Live videos!! Oh that’s fun.

Sometimes though, when I couldn’t go online, I’d sit in my bed in the morning and connect with you energetically, sending love to individuals from my heart.

I know so many of you in this community because of my workshops, friendships from around the world and because of social media.

If you haven’t connected with me yet, come join me on Facebook (friend request me on my private page) or on my business page or on Instagram.

I love sharing coaching tips, realizations (sometimes my life feels like one realization after the other, which is amazing!!). Also personal stories there and what I’m inspired by – because I do believe we can live a fulfilling life where we are. We can create it.

There is so much beauty in the every day (when we look through the lens of beauty) and I love to be authentic on social media because I don’t want to contribute to our tendency for glamorizing perfection.

I find reality so much more beautiful!!

While I was unwell, I listened to a podcast on Being Intentional.

YES!!

Being conscious, present and intentional is really what I have craved my whole life.

It would create such inner turmoil when I wasn’t doing that – when I binge ate or overate or drank too much or consumed crap in other forms, like with trash magaznes or youtube (how does one find oneself watching the diet of a body-builder on a Saturday night?)

This became a theme of my novel and the novel was my way of clearing the crap and turning the mundane into something artistic, something with meaning, something beautiful.

I loved the way Anais Nin, the French writer, experienced her life so sensually and with the eye of the artist.

This week G said to me, “We’re not in an SBS film!”, as we were lying in bed talking about something deep this week.

(SBS for those overseas is a station that is known for broadcasting art-house and foreign films)

But baby we are!!

Deep conversation makes me feel truly alive and that’s why I love connecting with you through coaching, workshops and online.

That’s how I connect with people every day, in the cafe, at the acupuncturist…

My new accupuncturist this week was telling me about his ex-girlfriends and how before he balanced his own masculine/yang and feminine/yin energies with Thai Chi, he attracted women who had more masculine/yang energy.

I shared how so many women crave to be more in their feminine energy, especially in relationships, and desire the man to be more masculine, but don’t know how to.

That’s one of the things I help people with through coaching.

This is what Healthy + Powerfully Feminine means. We’re not Powerfully Masculine. Feminineand you have the power to transform it.

Being in a relationship where you can relax in your feminine energy and him in his masculine, creates strong sexual polarity too. 

And that’s really fun.

We all deserve great sex (if that’s what you desire).

For this, I believe, you need to love your body and own your beauty.

Juicy in life, juicy in the bedroom, as Kim Aname says.

If you would love me to assist you to feel like the delicious and sensual woman that you are by releasing all that is holding you back (all those habits and ways of thinking that are making you hate on yourself), I have my unique methods that I also tailor specifically for you.

If you would like to discuss what’s worked and what hasn’t and find out how my methods are different (with ease and pleasure, massive realizations and abundance rather than restriction or ‘willpower’) and you are ready to invest in yourself, click here to book your complimentary discovery call.

If you are ready to do it differently, I would love to work with you.

Oh this week I was also deeply saddened by the senseless act that went on in Nice. It makes me sad that there is so much hostility in the world, everywhere, but the South of France is one of my favourite places in the world too.

I not only love the environment, the culture and the language, but most importantly the people.

When I lived in Montpellier, I had friends of all backgrounds, Moroccan, Tunisian, Algerian… and French. And still do.

I have also been robbed more times in France that anywhere else (I actually have never been robbed anywhere else), but I also understand that people are a product of their upbringing and experiences.

Everyone believes they are right. The governments included (perhaps).

I will not stand from my privileged position, with my education and upbringing in this country, in my family, and judge people.

What I know is that there are loving people everywhere.

That’s why I feel at home in the world, at home when I travel.

Sometimes, especially this week, I sit in my bed in the morning and feel so connected and I naturally send love to you from my powerful heart.

Your heart is extremely powerful.

Did you know?

I know when I’ve written this before, one of my past clients and now friends said she actually felt a shift in her at that moment I sent my love.

I’d love to share this Loving Kindness Meditation with you that I posted on my FB page yesterday.

It is so powerful!!

Click here to access it.

When I’ve done this before with the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine women, they’ve not only loved it, but also have reported back amazing shifts.

Like receiving flowers and a card from someone one lovely lady had been experiencing conflict with.

Seriously, it’s powerful.

Do you believe it? Try it!!

Then let me know.

So I’ve covered Love and Sex, now about those miracles…

The miracle is the shift in perfection from fear to love.

In sending love to people we dislike, we’re sending love to ourselves.

We ask not that the other person change but that we change.

We ask that whatever is bothering us doesn’t anymore and we are able to return to a state of love, releasing the fears that bind us and keep us in a perpetual state of conflict and inner turmoil.

In getting over an ex, you ask not that the person loves you again, but that it doesn’t matter to you anymore.

You ask to be released from the egoic mind’s tightness and open into the expansiveness of a loving mind.

That’s how you will be able to release the past and keep your heart open to love again.

Come do the meditation with me here : (click the image to access it)

Then write and let me know what’s happening in your life and how you’re feeling or if you have noticed any subtle (or grand) shifts through doing this meditation.

Wishing you so much presence and power this week!

Enjoyyy my love.

From my wild and powerful heart to yours,
Mireille xxx

p.s.  Access your free copy of How to be Queen of your Love Life here, connect with me on Instagram here or on my FB personal page or business page here…. and book in for your coaching discovery session if you would love my help and guidance to be Healthy + Powerfully Feminine by clicking here.  So much abundance!!

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Would you love to be Healthy + Powerfully Feminine?
Imagine a life where you feel INTUITIVELY GUIDED, CALM and PRESENT.

You LOVE YOUR BODY and feel amazing in your skin.

You know how to GO WITHIN and receive WISDOM.

Your MIND is CLEAR.

You use INTUITION to MAKE DECISIONS that feel right and follow through on them.

You ATTRACT positive experiences and men because you VALUE yourself enough to refuse what you don’t want.

You have TIME for YOU.

You LOVE the work you’re doing.

And your life feels beautiful and fulfilling, joyful and abundant!

From this place, I have found, you are able to receive the LOVE you deserve because you know your worth and you know who you ARE and you truly and deeply love yourself.

Love yourself and your own life first.

The coaching relationship is such a beautiful way to receive and to work on yourself and consciously create your authentic life.

Click here to book your complimentary discovery call and experience what coaching with me could be like.

Discover.



Hi I’m Mireille! I’m a Divine Living certified coach. I help women to not only create a life they love, but also to release unhelpful habits and compulsions, remove the blocks to success and be the woman capable of receiving her desires.

Many of the women drawn to work with me have been through a major transition – like motherhood, loss of a parent or a relationship break up – and are tired of struggling, feeling overwhelmed, drowning under to-do lists and responsibilities and lacking real joy and satisfaction.

My Healthy and Powerfully Feminine in-person course and online private coaching program assists women to know their authentic power and gives them the tools and techniques to create real and lasting change.

I am so passionate about helping women to create a life they’re wild about because I know the effect it can have on our spirit and health when we keep ignoring our true desires.

The coaching relationship is a sacred space to be open and explore what’s possible, while being supported, guided and held accountable. It’s an amazing way to transform all areas of your life and create emotional, spiritual and financial fulfillment.

If you would love a complimentary 45-minute Discovery Session to see how coaching could benefit you, apply here.

How to Receive your Desires in Relationships, Dating + Love (+ a CRAZY story!!)

Hi lovely!

I heard a crazy story that may be oh-too-familiar to you too.

It was about a woman who, after a couple of dates with a man she thought was different, had then slept with him and, when he lost interest in her shortly after, was calling him a ‘player’ and was then using a fake social media account to get revenge!

Basically, she had become a crazy psycho.

It had only been about 2 weeks they’d known each other!!

Wasn’t it within this man’s rights to still be deciding whether he was into this woman or not?

But oh how we can be compulsive!!

A switch gets flicked and we become fixated.

I know!! Believe me I know!!

This is the unhealthy wounded feminine.

The healthy feminine knows how to feel that fear and those emotions and move through it to come back to her centre.

That does not mean we push our emotions down or become unemotional!!

The opposite.

We feel and we process and we inform and we express with integrity.

The other day we were driving and I felt a storm cloud come over me,

“I thought you could control your emotions,” he said.

“No, I don’t control them. I feel and process them and I don’t project them,” I responded.

This is the beautiful thing.

The Healthy Feminine is Powerful as Queen of her Emotions.


I think he is waiting to see if I will turn and become crazy bitch or nag or sulk.

And he has every right to.

Obviously he has experienced that before, as I’m sure most guys have.

It is really smart to be cautious at first rather than jump in heart first.

I’m doing it too!!

Of course, I did wonder before I realized it.

It did bring up the, “but don’t you like me?” feelings.

Aren’t you CRAZY about me?

Because that’s what I’m used to damn it!!

Wait and see.

The prolonged opening.

The slow dance.

Patience.

Ah my beautiful friend Patience.

Wouldn’t we all love a visit from her?

I remember a friend once calling her recent ex-boyfriend 30 times because he wouldn’t pick up.

Compulsion.

There is a point when you think, “Fuck it! I’m going all the way!”

Now my message to you in receiving your desires is to channel that “Fuck it Thelma, let’s drive off the cliff! There’s no way back!” energy into something beautiful.

Negotiation.

In receiving your desires in relationships you have to know what you want and what you’re available for.

I know this because I made mistakes and spent a long time wondering, over-analyzing and then getting mad.

So ask.

Ask and you shall receive.

 

 

 

 

How To Receive your Desires in Relationships, Dating + Love

1. Get clear on your Feelings and Desires Alone

Feel your feelings.

Let go of the ego and what friends and family may be telling you about how you should interpret the situation.

Get clear for yourself.

2. Express what you Desire with Integrity

You want to see him 3 times a week and talk on the phone?

Say it with warmth, kindness and coolness.

Add something that gives him the option to choose what he wants to do too.

The fact is that the masculine desires freedom and your man also LOVES to make you happy.

It’s when they feel like they’re continually failing at making you happy that they get resentful, passive or just give up.

3. Negotiate + Discuss

Best relationship advice ever – Don’t argue. Always negotiate.

But baby, I sure wasn’t born this way!!

Just like you can learn to be a success in business, you can also learn to be a success in relationships.

4. If applicable, Walk Away

When you’re dating, you have to know that just because this person has given you attention or seems right in many ways, it doesn’t mean they are “the one”.

Don’t get lost in the stories in your head.

Be a woman about it.

A classy, sexy, emotional powerhouse Queen.

5. Let it Go

Don’t forget this step!

If you have received your desire or negotiated to receive what you are both happy with, don’t keep bringing it up.

Romance killer!

Remember, he wants to make you happy and when he does, SHOW IT.

It’s like anything in life – focus on the ABUNDANCE. Focus on what you are GRATEFUL for and you will receive more of it.

See the best in someone and they will rise to the occasion.

But KNOW yourself first. 


Would you love to be Healthy + Powerfully Feminine?

Imagine a life where you feel INTUITIVELY GUIDED, CALM and PRESENT.

You LOVE YOUR BODY and feel amazing in your skin.

You know how to GO WITHIN and receive WISDOM.

Your MIND is CLEAR.

You use INTUITION to MAKE DECISIONS that feel right and follow through on them.

You ATTRACT positive experiences and men because you VALUE yourself enough to refuse what you don’t want.

You have TIME for YOU.

You LOVE the work you’re doing.

And your life feels beautiful and fulfilling, joyful and abundant!

From this place, I have found, you are able to receive the LOVE you deserve because you know your worth and you know who you ARE and you truly and deeply love yourself.

Love yourself and your own life first.

Are you ready for a change?
Would you love to feel your loving grounded feminine energy?
Do you desire to do life differently?

The coaching relationship is such a beautiful way to receive and to work on yourself and consciously create your authentic life.

Click here to book your complimentary discovery call and experience what coaching with me could be like.

The right coach should feel good to you and that’s what you can find out on the call.

If you decide I’m not for you or I don’t feel you’re right for me, that’s perfectly fine too.

Discover.
From my wild and powerful heart to yours,

Mireille xxx

5 Surprising Things I Enjoyed This Week

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Hello beautiful!

This has been a very interesting week in so many different ways. There are a couple of articles I wanted to write, but only this one feels right.

Today I feel like allowing what is coming to be without forcing anything. Not that I always or usually force. But today this feels right. Meandering.

Journey with me if you like.

I went to the cafe this morning to write this and, though I mostly work really efficiently there, today I sat in conversation with a Yin Yoga teacher I know.

I told her of my 2 ideas for this post – one on How to Feel like An Abundant Queen and the second on How to be Queen of your Love Life.

We spoke about the second.

Something she said I really liked. She’d done a yoga class for kids and noticed that the most disruptive one respond the best to gentle touch and attention.

Just like how women nag when they want attention, I said.

Just like everyone wants presence.

We do.

* This week I have really enjoyed being present with myself.

I have lain on my bed for an hour feeling my heart and my womb and allowing my desires to come and to be.

I have struggled with resistance to my growth and then I have settled and watched it and accepted it.

I have allowed the unexpressed parts of myself to be seen.

*I have enjoyed receiving my first male client.

Yayy. I feel LIFE opening to me in this way.

I LOVE men. I get along really really well with them.

I like to study the masculine too. I am fascinated by our differences.

I like to apply everything I learn. Sometimes this feels like a lot of information I’m carrying around.

Solution? Connect back to my truth in every moment. Release the drama and the stories (especially the ones other people tell you about how it should be) and all the teachings and just express openly, honestly.

Ask rather than assume.

*I have enjoyed tuning into the energy of abundance.

I really love working with energy. I also really enjoy remembering that I am here to help others and that in order to do so, it is part of my job to get into the space where I can hold my clients in a higher vibration.

I loved talking about Abundance for the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine program this week. Actually a good part of the talk was about how to get back into your power after feeling weak. I felt Fluent. Divine. Natural. Led.

*I have enjoyed being my spiritual soulful self

Marianne Williamson said that when you’re spiritual it’s like you’re part of an underground movement and you don’t have to go around telling or trying to convert others.

True. Very true.

But I feel fine to be openly spiritual now and that book (A Return to Love) was written quite some time ago. I feel it’s not so fringe anymore. It depends on the world you’re living in really and how far on the journey you are I suppose.

Some people are more willing to show the light that shines inside and burns to be released and to be seen and to be true.

It really depends on how far we’ve been squashed into the box.

Doesn’t it?

How far our spirits have been pushed down.

But this is our work, I believe.

To allow ourselves to be seen and to be true.

To set our spirits free.

To find our truth.

* I have enjoyed being the real me, intimately.

Expressing my desires and allowing the other the freedom to work out what he wants to do. Letting go of attachment to a certain answer. Knowing who I am.

Trusting that everything is happening exactly as it should be.

How freeing that is.

I feel super fucking proud of that.

I have also enjoyed having red nails and dark hair.

And eating the wonder that is romanesco.

How about you lovely? How have you grown this week? What have you realised? Did you push past your comfort zone showing up as more authentically YOU?

I’d love to know.

Would you love to feel in your power and in your feminine energy as a Spiritual Goddess Warrior Queen? Do you require help transforming some habits to be the best version of YOU? Are you ready to release all that’s been holding you back and create your most beautiful life?

My new coaching packages are here.

To book your complimentary discovery call to find out what coaching with me would be like click here.

Wishing you a beautiful week my friend!

From my wild and powerful abundantly loving heart to yours,

Mireille xxx

p.s. Have you watched this video on how to communicate as a Queen (or King) in relationships? It’s super short!! And I’ve received great feedback from it. Plus it kind of went viral.

It didn’t really but it has twice the views of the video I clicked on in an email where the coach said the same. What is going viral really? Maybe it did go viral!



Hi I’m Mireille! I’m a Divine Living certified coach. I help women to not only create a life they love, but also to release unhelpful habits and compulsions, remove the blocks to success and be the woman capable of receiving her desires.

Many of the women drawn to work with me have been through a major transition – like motherhood, loss of a parent or a relationship break up – and are tired of struggling, feeling overwhelmed, drowning under to-do lists and responsibilities and lacking real joy and satisfaction.

My Healthy and Powerfully Feminine in-person course and online private coaching program assists women to know their authentic power and gives them the tools and techniques to create real and lasting change.

I am so passionate about helping women to create a life they’re wild about because I know the effect it can have on our spirit and health when we keep ignoring our true desires.

The coaching relationship is a sacred space to be open and explore what’s possible, while being supported, guided and held accountable. It’s an amazing way to transform all areas of your life and create emotional, spiritual and financial fulfillment.

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Why you don’t always feel grounded, intuitive, sane… (Living In Tune with your Menstrual Cycle)

Hey Lover!!

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Wow! What a week this has been.

As you know, we began the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Online Program 10 days ago so it’s very inspiring and rewarding to hear about the participant’s experiences and realisations after our first call.

Whoa did I produce a lot and lean in heavily on the creative process this past month!

When I originally wrote this as a Museletter to the women in my community, the rain was pouring down outside and I was looking forward to a day spent mostly in bed relaxing.

This came at a perfect time as it is the phase in my menstrual cycle to relax and rest.

Did you know we can optimize our life by living in accordance with our menstrual cycle? This is what I’m sharing with you today.

Recently a male friend told me I should definitely stop talking about my menstrual cycle with guys I’ve just met. But, it’s so fascinating that I just can’t help but share this! It can explain sooooo much!

Earlier this year, I went on a date with a guy who thought I was disinterested.

When I asked him after what was up and he told me that, I said “Oh it’s because I had my period. I felt spacey. I hadn’t spoken to anyone for at least 24 hours beforehand!”

Note to self : do not schedule dates during period.

I will explain…

I’ve been observing the phases of my cycle the past couple of months after attending an awesome workshop about Optimizing your Life according with your Cycle with Lucy Peach and it has been very comforting to clients and friends when I’ve past on this knowledge. It really explains a lot!

Lucy was teaching from the book The Optimized Woman by Miranda Gray and I also know that Claire Baker has been running workshops on this and is also launching an e-book going in depth on this. So check out any of these resources if you’d like to go further than what I’m telling you today.

Last Friday, after being pummeled so magically by a Chinese masseuse and sleeping so well, I woke up feeling so present and peaceful.

Why can’t I always feel this way?

That’s the question we often asks ourselves and, though there are dozens of factors at play, there are distinctive phases we experience when we are in tune with our menstrual cycle.

When I wrote this article, I was in the menstrual phase when I really don’t give too much of a crap actually. I felt like retreating and I couldn’t bring myself to face social media. I had nothing to say.

 

The Menstrual Phase

This is when we feel most spiritual, intuitive, reflective, dreamy, reflective and slow.

We should allow ourselves to rest and retreat and avoid social commitments because if we do that, then we will feel a lot more energized the rest of our cycle.

This phase is associated with darkness, and women traditionally bled by the new moon.

When I’m bleeding with the new moon, I feel more balanced in the amount I’m giving and receiving. Right now, as my cycle has switched to menstruating by the full moon, I realize I’ve been working a lot harder than when my body is more in balance. This is something I observed last year.

I also believe that when we allow ourselves to rest, we don’t suffer from cramps and other menstruating symptoms as badly and that cramping is a way of forcing us to rest.

The Dynamic Phase

The next phase of the cycle, lasting around a week, is the Dynamic Stage when we are the most hard-working. I also find I am the most picky during this phase.

When I was in Bali, the first day I arrived I was still feeling the effects of the menstrual stage so I felt rather spacey and present. Remember I wrote to you how I was enjoying sitting and staring off into space?

Love, Romance + Sweet Pleasure in Bali

After a day or so I moved into my Dynamic Phase, and then I found I wanted to work a lot and it was also hard to let go. I observed afterwards that during this phase, I like everything to be very neat (so I loved having only a carry-on bag to take care of). I can also get very frustrated when the results aren’t happening as fast as I would like.

Lucy said that this can be a problem during this stage, when you are super fast and with it and can’t understand why other people aren’t getting what you mean as quickly and keeping up.

I also find during this phase I’m not so great at public speaking. Perhaps if we are not able to explain ourselves as clearly during this phase, conflict may arise because of it.

You see how helpful it can be to have this knowledge?!

It can also be helpful to know this about those around you, even if you don’t bleed anymore or are on the pill so don’t feel these affects so much. And to know this about the women in your life. I often check which stage of their cycle my clients are in now when they share a challenge that relates to this. It helps a lot!!

The Social Phase

During the Social Phase, which is when we are ovulating, we are very social, tend to wear more revealing clothes, and I find, able to communicate really well.

I made this video during the Social Phase, when I’m naturally good at speaking and want to. Yes great to plan my workshops and any other speaking engagements for then too!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKYW9adJVfM

During this phase we want to go out and enjoy the big wide world so it’s great to schedule events and catch ups for now.

If you are ovulating by the full moon, then I imagine that if your sleep was disrupted, you wouldn’t mind as much as you’re energized by your desire to be out and about and perhaps not needing as much sleep.

The problem with this phase is that we may commit to things   that we don’t want to do the rest of our cycle because we feel so loved up by this energy (like, as one friend experienced, committing to organizing her daughter’s school fete as well as doing the logo and branding).

You can pretty much tell where I am at with my phases by what I post on social media. Committing to a 30-day post everyday Gratitude Challenge – social phase. Wanting to hold a massive talk for 100 people and organize it all myself – social phase.

I also find I do my most over-sharing on social media during this phase!! Good to be aware of.

There’s a part of me that wants to say ‘be careful what you post because you may reveal more than you’re comfortable with otherwise’ (ahem) and another part that wants to say ‘fuck it let’s embrace our authenticity’.

But you may be wondering…

What is our authentic selves if we are always changing??

All of it!

Embrace your wild, beautiful woman!!

I am woman and I am free to be whoever I choose to be.

I am woman, I have emotions and those emotions enrich our lives.

The freedom comes when you are able to feel and express those emotions without attaching to them or projecting them onto others.

Your emotions can make you exciting and dynamic.

Think of those sexy Italians.

Oh emotion!

The Creative Phase

The last pre-menstrual stage is actually our Creative Phase and if you put your energy into a creative project you’re passionate about at this time, you won’t feel as irritated.

Lucy said she scheduled in her song writing time during this phase and by the end of the year had two album’s’ worth of material.

Cool right?

This is also the phase when we stop putting up with what we’ve been tolerating the rest of the month, so though we may get angry, it has a good purpose.

Because as women we tend to go with the flow and accommodate others A LOT so… what’s wrong with stopping that and reassessing once a month??

One really interesting thing Lucy said too was that when you have a big decision to make, work it through your whole cycle.

Yes!! I don’t know how many boyfriends I broke up with during my pre-menstrual stage!! Obviously all for the best in the end but… How many ‘Well maybe we should just break-up’ conversations I had because of being in this phase!! So de-stabilising to a relationship.

If I had known I was experiencing those feelings because I was in the pre-menstrual phase, I could’ve avoided having the conversation until I was in a different stage of my cycle, after seeing if I still felt the same way.

Have you experienced this too?

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I’d love to hear from you! Just reply in the comments and let me know. Or for any reason!!

At the time I wrote this to my Museletter babes, I said… Ooh I’m off to snuggle down now and listen to this beautiful rain as I retreat into myself…. now, in my Dynamic stage, it’s more like off to finish 5 things on my to-do list in the next 20 minutes!!

Wishing you the most beautiful day!!

From my wild and powerful heart to yours,

Mireille xxx

The Art of Living with Pleasure + Beauty

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Yesterday I went to the Crown Lobby Lounge to do some work on the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Program and the Queening workshop this Saturday and enjoyed sipping a cappuccino as I absorbed the ambience.

I love being in high vibe hotel lobbies. In Switzerland I would regularly do my work at The Palace Hotel along the lake and I realized this was something I was missing in my life.

Another practice I’ve been incorporating this week is embodying my French woman.

The French woman is an archetype I’ve been drawn to since I was 12 years old and nowadays it’s a feeling and energy I embody to return to a state of presence, pleasure and attention to beauty and style, just as I embody the Queen’s energy to get over any attachments to past loves and attract abundance.

Since I was a teenager too, I longed to live an interesting and creative life, with elegance and grace, bringing attention and presence to everything I do.

So, when I would find myself watching the e-entertainment channel, reading celebrity magazines, drinking and eating too much and too fast, wasting hours and days of my life, it would cause a lot of inner turmoil and I’d really beat myself up over it.

Then when I discovered how I could transform these habits that were holding me back and actually be the person I really desired to be, I wanted to share this. So I created the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Program – which can now be taken from anywhere in the world!

We start the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Online Group Program with Self-Love and Sacred Rituals, because how we live our days is how we live our lives.

We bring attention and intention to our days and cultivate a life of beauty and presence.


Week Two is The Art of Radiance and Body Love, where we practice eating sensually and for pleasure and do the deep work to release any obsessions or preoccupations so that we can be our most peaceful and beautiful self.

Week Three is The Art of Desires and Energy, where we’ll open ourselves fully to our desires and learn to attune our energy to receive with more ease.

Week Four is The Art of Abundance, where we’ll uncover and release any subconscious limiting money beliefs and learn practices to create more flow so that we can be doing work we love and be paid well for it.

Week Five is The Art of Feminine Presence and Intuition, learning to lean back and release control so that we can be our most irresistible self. When we feel this inner beauty and glow, it really doesn’t matter what else is happening on the outside.

The final week is The Art of Receiving, from all the work we have been doing, we go deeper into our feminine energy and out of pushing and struggling to a state of receptivity.

Many women find that in relationships they are controlling and forcing things along, not feeling their most attractive self. The Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Online Group Program will help you be in pleasure, beauty and ease.

 

 

The Program starts On May 18th (next Wednesday) so if this is for you, I’d love you to join and that’s why I’ve made it completely accessible.

You will receive…

Preparation material as soon as you join.

6 live and downloadable training calls with me (plus time for questions and coaching).

6 modules with notes and practices.

3 extra guided meditations for releasing blocks and old beliefs and connecting to your power.

Membership to the online community to keep inspired, motivated, make friends and ask questions.

♥ A group of 3 to be your accountability girlfriends.

 

The investment for your most beautiful, powerful, feminine self is…

Best Value : AU$444 = US$326 = £225

Most Flexible : 3 monthly payments of AU$164 = US$120 = £83

Click the images below to join (currency conversions will be done for you) ….

 

 

 

I used to be forever craving a life somewhere else, but now the pleasure + beauty I longed for is right here at home. It’s in the air that I breathe and in the way that I am.

Would you love to bring presence, pleasure and beauty to your daily life?

Would you love to feel peaceful and powerful in body, mind and spirit?

Then give yourself what you desire my love.

From my wild heart to yours,

Mireille xxx

 

Goals with Feminine Ease + FLOW

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Hello my love!

Do you find it easy to set goals and reach your target?

It’s ok if you don’t!

This is one of the reasons I came to this feminine essence work (the other reason was so I’d loosen my grip in my relationship).

What happened was that I was in the coaching academy with all these fabulous women from around the globe, many of whom were already successful coaches.

So what was I doing?

Comparing myself.

Wondering why it looked so easy for them and not for me.

Pushing to keep up!!

I felt frazzled and my energy was so tensed up, only I didn’t know it until a fellow coach came to visit me one day and sensed it immediately.

Energy doesn’t lie.

If you’re feeling stuck, look at your energy.

When we want something really badly, we often go after it and get fixated on the goal. I don’t know about you, but when I’m like this I tend to strangle the desire.

Do you ever feel like that? Suffocating? Tight?

I had to learn to do it differently.

To let go a bit. To enJOY. While working on my mindset and uncovering the subconscious blocks that were preventing me from truly believing in myself.

What you seek is seeking you.

But perhaps trying so hard is making you feel stressed and burnt out!

Being in your feminine essence means working on an energetic level and coming from your body and your heart. To relax and let go. Loosen. Soften.

FLOW.

FLOWering.

Bloom.

We often find our problem is that we are too much in our heads. Right?

But as women, we are so powerful in our hearts, able to love so unbelievably and unconditionally and the heart is much more truth and powerful when we tune into it.

Drop into that powerful heart and send your desires out from there.

Your desires can come from and be sent out and absorbed into the heart.

Then it should also be in alignment with your womb and sexual organs.

It must be a YES all round!

(I’m showing you an easy tool to do this in the video below)

Lots of women come to me with the desire to live in alignment and make decisions that are in alignment with their body. I’ve shared before what a big impact this had on me!

Remember in Sunday’s Museletter I invited you to join a new webinar with me. I had the epiphany on Monday that I didn’t really want to do this right now as I am preparing for the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Program and that would take a lot of energy away.

I felt that I could provide in a deeper way for you if I stayed focused on my desire to help women to find their peace and power in body, mind and spirit, and to connect to the Divine Feminine within so that she can feel it and bring this out into the world.

By feeling beautiful, radiant and powerful, the women I help can in turn do their good work in the world and show up confidently as their most authentic selves.

Whatever you’re doing right now, know that it is of high service, that you are touching lives and healing with your beauty, your wildness, your emotions and your loving presence.

So I course corrected.

And it felt so fricking good.

I went off to my yin yoga class with such a sense of joy spreading through my whole body.

A magical moment of ease and grace.

The Feminine Way is to go within before going out into the world.

Get fully in your body by walking, doing yoga, Qi Gong, dancing or self-pleasuring (so powerful), feel juicy and then sit in meditation.

Ask and allow your next step to come to you.

And then take the next step.

Go out and have fun.

This is really important!

Let go. Let go. Let go.

Let go of the voices from outside telling you what you should do.

Believe that you are worthy.

I am worthy of greatness.

My work is of high value and I am massively compensated.

I am open and ready to receive.

Take the next step.

Surrender and trust.

But surrendering doesn’t mean “giving up”.

Surrendering means opening up to the Divine plan for you and knowing always that it’s this or something better.

What you seek is seeking you.

How beautiful does that feel?

Let it in.

Feel what an energetically powerful creature you are.

We always connect to this in my Healthy + Powerfully Feminine sessions.

It’s an energy you feel. It’s a vibrancy in your cells.

I’ll post a video at the bottom of this mailer to help you to connect to your Powerful Feminine Energy.

I am proud to say that the women who’ve joined Healthy + Powerfully Feminine have experienced being in the flow, attuned with their beautiful feminine energy and more peaceful, even through life’s challenges.

They’ve also experienced amazing results, with thousands of dollars being manifested, job opportunities, more work and money flowing into their business and an influx of creativity… being in their feminine energy, allowing ease and grace. You can read their beautiful stories here

Do you desire this too?

Would you like to learn more about how to tune into and amplify your feminine energy and do it consistently?

Would you love to feel your peace and power in body, mind and spirit?

If you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed by the amount of work you have to do each day, pushing to achieve and keep up and struggling to have enough time for both your responsibilities and your dreams…

I invite you to learn more about your Feminine Essence.

If you’re experiencing financial struggle or a lack of abundance and ease to your bank account and bills, having the thoughts that you “don’t have enough time/money/the energy” but when you do you will be able to do what you really want/take that trip/quit the job/start the exercise program….

I invite you to learn how to use the power of your mind and uncover subconscious blocks.

If you are feeling disconnected from your joy and slightly unfulfilled and annoyed at wasting time, eating junk, drinking too much or overspending…

I invite you to learn to tune into your body and work with your energy.

All this we do and embody in the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Program.

The online group program is starting very soon and I would love you to join if you desire this too. Click here to find out more and get started.

If you have any questions, just email admin@mireilleparker.com or message on Facebook or in the comments below.

If you would like to set up a call to see if this program is right for you. I’m available this Saturday to speak to you. No pushy sales conversations, just you telling me what you require right now and answering your questions.

And here’s the video to tune into your Feminine Energy…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_hEVhzbGc5Y

Wishing you much love and much fun and abundance!

I’m off to enjoy an evening at the Sky Garden. I’ve requested some magical happenings and wild-hearted adventures to share with you 🙂

(Oh and please do forward this along to the women in your life. You just never know who needs this! I’d also really appreciate it. Mwah!)

Sending so much love,

Mireille xxx

p.s. If you are lucky enough to be in Perth on May 14th, you can join The Art of Queening workshop with me (click here for details).


Love, Romance + Sweet Pleasure in Bali

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Hello my love!

Are you enjoying enough romance?

I sure am!

I’m feeling lovely. Today started with a bit of stress, but by 7am that was handled and what followed was a journey back to slowness and pleasure.

A beautiful yin yoga class, where the postures are long and deep and you intuitively go as far as your body desires or requires. There were tennis balls involved too.

Then a manicure and pedicure, followed by a massage with this amazing woman who makes me feel like I’m slowly being trampled by an elephant, in such a good way. I am now her devotee.

This really is a fine romance!

Sorry to disappoint you if you were expecting some juicy hook up tales. Today I’m going to talk about pleasuuuure.

I’m here in Bali romancing my soul, getting loved up with my lap top, making sweet love to my business, Queening to my heart’s content and practising the fine Art of Being Alone.

It really is an art.

I feel like I’m teaching people here that it’s okay to be alone.

People that I meet keep saying “Ooh must be hard” type of things.

‘Babies?’ They say.

‘No, not yet’ I answer.

‘Married?’

‘Divorced.’

It all sounds so Eat, Pray, Love.

Even that Bintang smuggler I wrote about on this week’s blog post on How I Don’t Drink (in a culture that very much does) chimed in with a ‘I feel lonely sometimes being here with these 2 couples.’

Of course you do dear you’re distracting yourself.

I didn’t really say that. I said,

‘Yes sometimes you can feel more lonely in a group than alone.’

The truth is I’m not lonely.

It’s not hard here.

I’m enjoying myself!!

Is this hard for you to believe too??


I’ve been way lonelier in relationships when I was trying not to be lonely.

Have you felt that too?

Perhaps you’ve gone for the wrong guy or girl just because they’re there, or if in relationship, getting all needy and naggy.

Because we want attention!!

But what if we gave ourselves the attention we so desired?

What would happen if we stopped waiting and crowned ourselves the Queen of our Pleasure?

That would be a whole lot of fun…

Or would you feel guilty?

It would be interesting to reflect on what this brings up in you.

Do you think, “Geez I’d love even a day on my own!” or do you think “Hmm nice but would be better with the love of my life…”? (cue violins)

Only kidding, it’s good to feel the pain of being alone.

Better than distraction.

Pain motivates us to move.

Distraction keeps people spinning in circles.

Or settling.

I have felt the pain of being alone.

I wrote about it.

There is the pain and then there is the beauty in the pain.

The treasure.

And in being alone there is also so much pleasure.


I really really enjoy sprawling out across a big bed and sitting at breakfast by myself, drinking black coffee, observing the others, staring into the void (because how often do we have that luxury?) and writing whatever comes to mind.

Creativity keeps me company.

Believe…

Lie down under a frangipani tree and don’t do anything.

Your creativity will start flowing like a glorious river.

(It doesn’t have to be a frangipani tree even).

Nurture it. Nourish it.

Your mind can be a most entertaining companion.

Pleasure is cultivated.

Being Healthy + Powerfully Feminine means being Queen of your Pleasure.

Pleasure keeps you slim and satisfied.

Are you receiving enough pleasure?

By expanding your pleasure portfolio, you will not seek pleasure in any one form.

Most people though, don’t allow themselves to explore this.

We are too embarrassed to bring coloured pencils on holiday or swing on the swings or hang from the monkey bars or dine alone.

And I feel like it’s a great shame!

Lack of pleasure is an epidemic.

It makes people fat!

And unhappy.

Lacking that ‘Je ne sais quoi’, that ‘Joie de Vivre’.

Let’s not pretend we’re only grown ups!

We’re pleasure seeking creatures after all and if your body doesn’t receive enough pleasure, she will seek it out in the most convenient form.

Whatever that is for you.

If you don’t know what brings you pleasure it’s okay it’s normal.

Go exploring.

Today as I sat at the Yoga Barn’s Cafe enjoying that post yoga stillness and nourishing myself with a fresh coconut and a beet, carrot and lime juice, I started to write about what brings me pleasure…The pleasure of relishing in the world of health.

The pleasure of making connections between words and their meaning.

The pleasure of watching the ink form words and shapes across the page as my hand moves and creates.

The pleasure of lying under a pink frangipani tree as the morning slips by.

The pleasure of waking from a nap in the fresh air to see the sky.

The pleasure of spicy food.

The pleasure of sitting and not having to go anywhere.

The pleasure of observing people.

The pleasure of watching Australians greet the Balinese staff as old friends.

The pleasure of taking self-pleasure breaks.

(Are you getting enough of that?)

The pleasure of standing in an immigration queue and repeating “Thank you! I am grateful!” the whole time.

The pleasure of sharing a smile with a stranger.

The pleasure of tropical heat.

The pleasure of eating rice done well.

The pleasure of finishing work you set out to do.

The pleasure of having only a small bag of belongings and keeping everything so neat.

The pleasure of walking in the early morning.

The pleasure of rubbing flowers into my feet.

Have I given you enough pleasure?

Ruminate on these. How do they make you feel?

What brings you pleasure?

I’d love to know!

Just sit with pen and paper and write, ‘The pleasure of…’ and wait.

Let it come.

Let it flow.

Let it move through you.

Life.

Drink it in.

Connoisseur of your own romance.

Queen of your Pleasure.

Let’s rule this world x

Wishing you a pleasure-filled week!

Sending so much love,

Mireille xxx

p.s. Would you love to learn more about The Art of Queening? Get into the energy of abundance, in tune with your desires and able to respond and request so you can open yourself up to receiving. Be the Queen. Rule your World.

Would you like to embody the energy of a Queen and get into your power around men, money and health?

I’m hosting two events! The first is a is a webinar for anyone around the world on May 12th (click here for details) and…

The other is a workshop for those in Perth on May 14th (click here for details).

Plus, we have some incredible women who’ve joined the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Online Group Program and doors are open still. Click here for the details.