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I Survived Two Days Without TV

Would you rather a robot cleaner or a trip to Mars? Two days into my TV detox these are the kind of thoughts I’m having. Because why are the billionaires trying to get to Mars (is it ego?) when they would do a bigger service to humanity by focusing on those robot house keepers?! Second question, is there such a thing as a single entendre?

It started like this, on Friday night I watched a whole lot of YouTube videos on someone living the simple life, all white and beige and minimalist in Maui, and also a lot on live-streamers in China, who are being trained to put out their shows like factory hens. Both were fascinating. Live streaming in China is huge and men donate to see women chat or eat or sing but it’s not a sexual thing. One manager said it’s closely linked to their cultural history because people used to perform in the streets for money, like busking I guess.

I also watched something on hostesses and hosts in Japan. The top of his game host made almost half a million a year, much more than the highest paid hostess. His job involved meeting a woman on the street and then going on a date, where he would tell her about his profession and invite her to come to the club where he worked. She would then, he said, get work on the side (like as a prostitute), in order to pay for his drinks at the club and earn him money. The point of which is to feel the ‘love feeling’.

Coming home on Saturday night, I watched some semi-boring things on TV and during the night a plan hatched that it might be good to give up TV (including YouTube) for a month and see what happens. The next day we went for a 23km bike ride along the coast and then came home to a no-TV world. I’d gotten quite hooked on that dopamine fix. It felt strange. I read a book for a few hours and then just sat there before bed.

By the second day, I was already loving it. It felt so peaceful. In the evening I lay in bed and looked at the sky out the window, noticing that my mind was still trying to do things. Practise being present. But you’re still doing something. Then at night my boyfriend and I sat and talked before dinner. And when we came to read our books, he asked if I wanted to read this short story he had told me about, finding it funny.

So I read it and then, looking at Jean Lynn, the writer, her website and the articles she’d written, I found pieces of myself and what I strove to be, the quirkiness, before I became a coach. It was how I started Wonderlust, the novel and the blog. It was the way I used to read Frankie magazine, ride my bike and make things for the house. It was the books I used to read and the Melbourne-style I craved. It was something I’ve been wondering about lately.

With so much love,

Mireille xx

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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Which Power Drama Are You?

When I was 16, I got with this guy and, as was my way, became obsessed with him. The next weekend I left for a month-long French exchange to La Reunion island, next to Mauritius. As part of the trip we did a hike down a volcano with the whole group of 30 or so students from across Perth. When they called out a girl’s name with the same surname as my obsession, my ears pricked up and my heart leaped. So I went to talk to her and we walked through the jungle, making our way down the volcano, together.

This was when she told me of Celestine Prophesy, a book that had changed her life and reflected the environment we were in. Over the years I did think to read it but it was only seeing it on Helle Weston’s instagram in 2017, aged 38, that I actually did go out and get it. Psychiatrist Carl Jung describes synchronicity as a meaningful coincidence and James Redfield, the author, says it is the first stage of  spiritual awakening.

The way the book came into my life was synchronistic. That guy I got with, I hadn’t been into, but he was pursuing me, and it turned out he was friends with some family friends and we had known each other in my early childhood. Maybe if not for all this, I wouldn’t have heard of the book then. When I wanted to track it down at age 38, I had the inkling to go to a particular second hand book store on the way to have my photo taken.

Following the brain surgery, I had been asked by someone who’d been on my Healthy + Powerfully  Feminine course if she could take my photo for this series she did. She asked me to pick a spot in Perth I loved and I could only think of Green Space Reserve, a secluded grass embankment by the river. It was only when I opened the book, to something aptly describing issues with my ex-husband, that I realised it would have been my eighth wedding anniversary that day and I was exactly in the place where we’d gotten married.

All this to say, which power drama are you? Redfield describes four that match. Learnt from childhood, as a way of gaining power, we play out either the Interrogator/ Aloof or the Intimidator/Victim. If someone is interrogating, the other gains power by being aloof. Or interrogating back. Or two people may both act aloof. Likewise, if one person is intimidating, the other may act like a victim to gain power. Or may be intimidating too. Or both could act like victims. Immediately I thought of an ex playing the victim, which meant that I must be an intimidator too!

I knew I’d acted like a victim at times, till I manifested breast cancer at 34, then read Carolyn Myss’s Why People Don’t Heal and How They Can, and stopped it. But I hadn’t thought of myself as playing the intimidator. Alas, it was true. I could shout and criticise, but more often shut myself off, build walls around myself, cut people off. “I don’t need you” is also a form of intimidation. The real way to gain power is to love, Redfield says. And though, I definitely believe we still need boundaries and standards, becoming conscious to this pattern of behaviour was definitely a step in the right direction.

What power drama are you?

With so much love,

Mireille xx

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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My Best Relationship Advice

My Love,

It feels scary to write this. My best relationship advice? Ego says, “You’re no expert!” No. But I am a keen student. The truth is that I’ve spent the last five years  learning about and observing dating and relationships. So I am offering you some of what I’ve learnt today.

1. Go to sleep angry. The experts may disagree but for me this works. In law of attraction terms, we receive thoughts according to our vibrational reality. So when we are tired we have lower quality thoughts. Plus, when we hold a thought for 17 seconds, it gains momentum, and attracts thoughts of the same frequency. That’s why transformation gurus like Tony Robbins swear as a pattern interrupt. We’d only have to focus on something else for 17 seconds, like our lovely comforting pillow, to create that for ourselves. In the morning, we wake with new perceptions and fresh thoughts.

2. Feel your feelings and express them. Realise that the other person is most likely doing their best too. Don’t assume they have bad intentions. Communication is key. For a guy, they talk best while doing other things, like having a beer or playing golf. People are also more open to suggestions when you see the good in them also. Start with something like “This isn’t your fault. It’s just that I noticed..” or “I really appreciate how you.. and also it would be great if we could..” Saying we makes it less blameful. These are techniques of a master negotiator. I know. I’m not perfect at it either. But still.

3. Communicate your desires and needs. Otherwise we become resentful and then that seeps out or explodes at inappropriate times. The subconscious mind is seeking an outlet for these suppressed emotions. But then we hate ourselves and wonder why we are so angry. Learning to communicate my emotions and what I want has been such a game changer for me. It’s made me a much happier person and way better to be around. That’s why I created the Empower guide to help.

4. Learn how your partner experiences love and give it. Your man may protest, but if you don’t know what his love language is, you can take this test to find out. Learn what yours is too or, even better, get him to ask you. Yes he may hate it but tough. This is important to you. Express it. My love language is words of affirmation. If he forgets? You can remind him. Not all the time, just occasionally. And yes you can teach an old dog new tricks.

5. See the positive. I don’t mean blindly see the positive as I used to do. That might mean you make yourself susceptible to narcissists and players. But if you are in a happy and/or committed relationship, by making lists of their positive aspects, you begin to see it more. You could even list out their pros and cons and you’ll probably find that the pros is much longer than the cons.

There you go my dear, as I said, I’m not a qualified expert but these are five tips that have helped me. Relationships are such a key area that can lift us up or bring us down like little else. And the crazy thing is, we don’t usually learn how to be good at it. But we can.  Learning to manifest too has been so helpful in creating a constructive relationship and in becoming the person able to receive it.

With so much love,

Mireille xx

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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Your Life Purpose

Friend, once again, at the risk of seeming like a complete dork, I shall share with you my truth. Oh yayyy! I’m feeling so excited to have finally found my life purpose and will share with you how you can find yours too. Last week especially I was really asking for this, affirming/praying in the form of “Thank you that I am living my life purpose!” as I went on my beauty walk. The next day I felt extremely on purpose but then on Tuesday evening I felt really down, wondering when it was going to happen and why it hadn’t happened yet.

Interestingly, as part of my life purpose I can swing between mania or confidence (I can do anything!)  and self-doubt or overwhelm (Why did I think I could do this?). Don’t I know it.  But because of feeling that insecurity on Tuesday, I  decided to do a 21-day daily meditation challenge. I’ve been a bit slack in that arena lately. Well, already that started me feeling so clear and joyful again on Wednesday and then on Friday morning as I was standing at the sink, thinking about a problem, I received the idea (the thought popped in my head) to go check this particular website, which led me to a book I have on Kindle, The Life You Were Born To Live. Actually, it wasn’t the first time that little voice had mentioned it lately but this time I listened.

Wow. This was a revelation! It is a calculation based on your date of birth and though it may sound far fetched, I tested the calculator against at least ten relationships, including with family and friends, and found it very accurate. So then I went to look at the book and found that as a 30/3 my life purpose is self-expression through emotional sensitivity and intuition, helping others to feel their emotions and experience the full expression of their humanity. 

“At the summit, the emotional connection 3s can feel to life and to others generates a rising energy that, once expressed, can uplift everyone around them, revelling in emotions the way dolphins revel in the sea. At the highest levels, 3s serve as an open channel of loving energy, moving others to joy and inspiration, becoming a force of light in the world.”

Couldn’t agree more! Lol. But because life purpose doesn’t come easily, the obstacles we face help us to deal with the issues associated with our paths. So it was that I came to writing as a way of expressing my emotions when I didn’t know how to as a child, teen and young adult. 3s make the best orators but also the best manic-depressives. I know the effect of blocking my emotions too and have been on a journey of expressing them in constructive ways. In fact, each time I have gone to the psych, post breast cancer metastasis, it has been with the intention to feel my emotions more. As a teacher or coach I was very in tune with how my students or clients were feeling, but had to learn to pull back also, to better serve them and myself.

There is a lot more in the book and in my books but you can start off with the calculator and find out yours. I’d love to know what your numbers are too. Try the calculator with your relationships and let me know how you go in the comments if any of it resonates. What have you got to lose?

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Lots of love,

Mireille xx

p.s. You can find me on Instagram here or for my art, Locomotive Creations, here.

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Love to feel peaceful and happy but too busy to do anything about it? Tired of turmoil? Discover how to quickly train your mind to experience presence and flow, happiness and harmony, no matter what is happening around you with metastatic breast, cancer warrior and author, Mireille Parker.

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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Love Your Life To Love Your Life

Friend, is it ok to love your life? I’m writing to you today because I wanted to explore some feelings that are coming up over admitting I love my life and also to share the practice that I do to love my life. I am in creative phase of my cycle and bucking to write more. I tried to hold out but hey, I’m going with it.

Lately I have been posting some of my journal on my Instagram author’s page while I work on my next book and wait for the others to be published. Sometimes I post a practice I do that starts out “I love my life, I love..” and then I list out all the things I love. I love being organised. I love sitting at my desk on a Sunday evening, I love espresso in that orange cup and choc-coated ice-cream..that kind of thing. But admitting I love my life aloud, where people can see and judge me, brings up so many feelings. I am conscious of this and then do it anyway. I do it even more so. Even though it is scary. It is not scary like walking through a dangerous part of town at night by myself but almost.

What if what we want is on the other side of this fear of judgement? That’s what I’m exploring. I mean, look at any one with popularity on the gram. It’s who dares wins. Or so it seems. If you are willing to post a picture of yourself every day, you may stand a chance, like one French lawyer who became popular for posting her fashion and had to override thoughts of “my family are going to be wondering why I’m posting a picture of myself in this white t-shirt”.  It’s scary to put ourselves out there and the fears are deep seated. If you got kicked out of the tribe you stood no chance of survival and some cultures are still very tribal.

But the “I love my life” practice is a way I built myself back up from when I was feeling so down at the end of 2016 when my life was in a mess. What I do know is that most of what we experience all comes down to perception. We filter out 95% of life and remember according to our beliefs. So by practising with the I love my life filter, we actually start to experience it. Whether you believe in the law of attraction, like attracts like and what your focus on grows, try the I love my life filter every day, writing it down, and see how good it makes you feel for one.

Feel your feelings of course. In my journal I also write out how I’m feeling every day and sometimes it’s good and necessary to be down for periods and go through what needs to be felt. But to be there every day endlessly? It’s not that helpful. Well, that’s what I found anyway.

How about you? Are you a feeling feelings type? Do you practise loving your life?

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Lots of love,

Mireille xx

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Love to feel peaceful and happy but too busy to do anything about it? Tired of turmoil? Discover how to quickly train your mind to experience presence and flow, happiness and harmony, no matter what is happening around you with metastatic breast, cancer warrior and author, Mireille Parker.

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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Married At First Sight : Intuition & Receiving

Dear friend, have you been watching Married At First Sight? I didn’t know what to write to you about today so I will write about this. Last Monday I woke at 4.30am and couldn’t get back to sleep so I ended up reading Rich As Fuck  and then I felt the urge to look at Amanda Frances’s instagram, which I resisted at first, and from there I had the urge to look at Katrina Ruth’s account, which I resisted at first too. But I read a post from her saying to teach what has been most transformative in your life.

At first I wasn’t sure what has been most transformative in my life. There are things that I’m practising but am not 100% sure about, like the law of attraction. Then there are things that I’m writing my books about but haven’t wanted to write here because I’d rather tell it as a full story. But over the week, it became clear that learning about love and relationships has been the most transformative thing in my life. I started off so bad at it and was for a very long time. But in the last five years this is really what I’ve been studying and practising behind the scenes.

And though my ego was saying “no, no.. I don’t want to teach!” that little call of the soul was saying go on, step in gently. So today, I again had no clue what to write but here it is. My head wanted to write about Married At First Sight but it was only a way for my heart to speak. Intuition feels like a push from the heart to me. It’s a physical feeling, which I practise tuning into. If I have to decide between two things or where to park, what to eat, I’ll ask my heart and listen to the feeling. Left or right, I ask, and I get an impulse or an answer of right or left. Know what I mean? 

Jess Lively has said, “The ego pushes, the soul calls” and sometimes I haven’t been so clear on what this means. But I guess it is exactly what I’ve just written about. My mind wants a good night’s sleep and decides I shouldn’t look up the Married At First Sight cast before bed because I wake up at 4.30am alert, my brain churning with ideas. But sometimes this is a good thing. One thing I feel for sure is true from the law of attraction (Abraham) teachings is that we receive thought, according to our vibrational frequency. That’s why I don’t think about important things at night when I’m tired or have critical discussions then.

But these little bread crumbs, one thing leading to the next, that morning at 4.30am, felt like part of a manifestation for sure, leading to me here, with more to come. Over the week other pieces started to come together, as ideas formulated out of the abyss. Abraham says that thought is manifestation, and sometimes you are not ready for your desire so you get the letting in process instead. These past five years have been a letting in process, a learning, an education, stepping stones on a path of discovery, still continuing. But getting closer it seems.

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Lots of love,

Mireille xx

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Love to feel peaceful and happy but too busy to do anything about it? Tired of your turmoil? Discover how to quickly train your mind to experience presence and flow, happiness and harmony, no matter what is happening around you with metastatic breast, cancer warrior and author, Mireille Parker.

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Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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What if LOVE is the way?

My love, what if love is the way? I have no idea what I’m going to write here, I only know that this is what is coming through. Recently there have been a few situations where I felt fear and anger but after feeling that on my own, I responded with love.  And it felt so good!

How I did it was I went to the beach for a walk after journaling out my feelings. From there I was trying to get to a place of love and peace but still felt the tight ball in my gut so I started to walk and, rather than saying affirmations for what I am calling in right now, the only thing I could bare to repeat is “I love you X”. X being the person’s name who had incited the fear. And as I walked, I continued to say I love you and I really felt it. Because all we are under our hard exteriors is five-year-old children wanting to be loved and accepted.

Loving this person and drowning out the fear felt expansive and so hard to put into words but in the end, powerful and mature and effective. When fearful thoughts crossed my mind as I went about my day, I repeated “I love you X” and felt it. When the opportunity came to communicate with this person, again I responded with love and I will keep on doing this. I’m not always mature or even tempered but I’m certainly a lot better than before and this situation certainly turned out to be a blessing in disguise, as always.

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Mireille xx

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Love to feel peaceful and happy but too busy to do anything about it? Tired of your turmoil? Discover how to quickly train your mind to experience presence and flow, happiness and harmony, no matter what is happening around you with metastatic breast, cancer warrior and author, Mireille Parker.

Get Master Your Mind : Create Peace Within here!

Sarah can’t escape herself, even overseas. Will she call hot Oliver? Who doesn’t even know she’s there! But who is this beautiful artist Bonnie? Set in Lucerne, Switzerland, and starring a travel agent from Perth, Australia, Wonderlust is a unique modern philosophical romance about creative women.

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I had brain surgery… and now I’m back!

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That’s right I’m back!!

Have you missed me?

You may have been following me on social media and know where I’ve been for the past 3 months.

In case you haven’t, I’ll explain briefly.

I had brain surgery!!

Remember how I was having migraines?

Well I tried acupuncture, got glasses, visited several GPs and even wrote this article (entitled ‘I felt like I was dying’)

Basically what happened is that after 3 weeks of intense migraines I went to get an MRI on a friend’s recommendation and after visiting another GP to ask for it (I went to 3 GPs, 2 accupuncture sessions, one eye-test, one eye specialist and one occupational therapy session in those 3 weeks).

Half an hour later I was called back to the GP, went straight to the neurologist and found out I had a tumour the size of half a fist but luckily it was outside the brain and operable.

That night I was administered into the hospital and two days later underwent the 7-hour operation.

I really had no clue about what it would be like. I was simply very happy as you can see in the video I made an hour before my op. You can watch it here

Anyway, it was quite a shock to wake up and I didn’t even realize I wasn’t feeling completely myself until some weeks later.

So now it’s been three months and it feels strange but good to be back.

I’ll be going slowly (in terms of marketing especially, but am happy to take on clients). I’ve had lots of time to reflect and really simplify what I’d been doing in my business.

I’m excited to bring you more in the coming months on Body Love, Self-Love and Romance.

(yes with life, yes with yourself, maybe even with another).

And of course I have much more to share about these past 3 months. So many lessons, life-changing moments, magical happenings, emotional  break downs and break throughs, much to be grateful for, lots to navigate and come to terms with, a whole lot of TV and even a bit of romance. Seriously!!

Well, if you’re going to call yourself a Spiritual Goddess Warrior Queen, expect to be tested 🙂

If you would like to follow more of my journey, you can follow me on Instagram-where I share most intimately

or on Facebook – I made a video this week on how illness can be for our evolution (and some of the emotional causes for the tumour and breast cancer 3 years ago).

I’d love to connect with you too and have been so amazed at all the support and well wishes I’ve received from so many kind and loving souls.

Likely this is you too and so I thank you so much beautiful!!

From my wild and powerful heart to yours,
Mireille xxx

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This week on Instagram…

Love, Sex + Miracles : a week in the life of a Healthy + Powerfully Feminine Spiritual Goddess Warrior Queen

Hello beautiful!!

How are you?

I am feeling much better but am going slowly.

I have to.

But I have so many ideas and lots I still want to share with you about relationships and being Queen of your Love Life, plus exciting new projects for later this year on Body Love + Radiance.

All of this is part of being Healthy + Powerfully Feminine.

Being Healthy + Powerfully Feminine means feeling empowered in your relationship to your body, your beauty and men.

It’s feeling beautiful and valuable, inside and out.

It’s knowing that the person you’re with is lucky to be with you – if they’re the right one for you.

This is the non-diva queenly approach to relationships that I go deeper on in my e-book : How To Be Queen of Your Love Life.

This week I got a message from one of the women in this community to say that after a month of being unwell, she feels so much closer to her body.

YES!!

Your body is speaking to you all the time, but sometimes she has to scream when you don’t listen.

Having a great relationship with your body means making aligned decisions (decisions that feel right in body, mind and spirit) and listening in to your intuition – your teachings from within.

And then listening out to the signs and messages you receive from the world around you.

You only have to ask and then pay attention.

Having cluster headaches (apparently this is what I have) is certainly challenging me to go within and do what is absolutely necessary.

While I’ve been unwell, I’ve been learning so much and having so many realizations.

(notice I say ‘unwell’. This is an example of conscious language as I’m still saying ‘well’).

One thing I realized is that I really really missed connecting with you on social media!!

At times I’ve had a love-hate relationship with Facebook in particular.

But I love being able to see what you are doing and feeling and sharing  from my own life and mind too.

That’s what I missed!!

Connection.

The positive side is that I’ve been calling and visiting people a lot more and I’ve started using Facebook Live videos!! Oh that’s fun.

Sometimes though, when I couldn’t go online, I’d sit in my bed in the morning and connect with you energetically, sending love to individuals from my heart.

I know so many of you in this community because of my workshops, friendships from around the world and because of social media.

If you haven’t connected with me yet, come join me on Facebook (friend request me on my private page) or on my business page or on Instagram.

I love sharing coaching tips, realizations (sometimes my life feels like one realization after the other, which is amazing!!). Also personal stories there and what I’m inspired by – because I do believe we can live a fulfilling life where we are. We can create it.

There is so much beauty in the every day (when we look through the lens of beauty) and I love to be authentic on social media because I don’t want to contribute to our tendency for glamorizing perfection.

I find reality so much more beautiful!!

While I was unwell, I listened to a podcast on Being Intentional.

YES!!

Being conscious, present and intentional is really what I have craved my whole life.

It would create such inner turmoil when I wasn’t doing that – when I binge ate or overate or drank too much or consumed crap in other forms, like with trash magaznes or youtube (how does one find oneself watching the diet of a body-builder on a Saturday night?)

This became a theme of my novel and the novel was my way of clearing the crap and turning the mundane into something artistic, something with meaning, something beautiful.

I loved the way Anais Nin, the French writer, experienced her life so sensually and with the eye of the artist.

This week G said to me, “We’re not in an SBS film!”, as we were lying in bed talking about something deep this week.

(SBS for those overseas is a station that is known for broadcasting art-house and foreign films)

But baby we are!!

Deep conversation makes me feel truly alive and that’s why I love connecting with you through coaching, workshops and online.

That’s how I connect with people every day, in the cafe, at the acupuncturist…

My new accupuncturist this week was telling me about his ex-girlfriends and how before he balanced his own masculine/yang and feminine/yin energies with Thai Chi, he attracted women who had more masculine/yang energy.

I shared how so many women crave to be more in their feminine energy, especially in relationships, and desire the man to be more masculine, but don’t know how to.

That’s one of the things I help people with through coaching.

This is what Healthy + Powerfully Feminine means. We’re not Powerfully Masculine. Feminine… and you have the power to transform it.

Being in a relationship where you can relax in your feminine energy and him in his masculine, creates strong sexual polarity too. 

And that’s really fun.

We all deserve great sex (if that’s what you desire).

For this, I believe, you need to love your body and own your beauty.

Juicy in life, juicy in the bedroom, as Kim Aname says.

If you would love me to assist you to feel like the delicious and sensual woman that you are by releasing all that is holding you back (all those habits and ways of thinking that are making you hate on yourself), I have my unique methods that I also tailor specifically for you.

If you would like to discuss what’s worked and what hasn’t and find out how my methods are different (with ease and pleasure, massive realizations and abundance rather than restriction or ‘willpower’) and you are ready to invest in yourself, click here to book your complimentary discovery call.

If you are ready to do it differently, I would love to work with you.

Oh this week I was also deeply saddened by the senseless act that went on in Nice. It makes me sad that there is so much hostility in the world, everywhere, but the South of France is one of my favourite places in the world too.

I not only love the environment, the culture and the language, but most importantly the people.

When I lived in Montpellier, I had friends of all backgrounds, Moroccan, Tunisian, Algerian… and French. And still do.

I have also been robbed more times in France that anywhere else (I actually have never been robbed anywhere else), but I also understand that people are a product of their upbringing and experiences.

Everyone believes they are right. The governments included (perhaps).

I will not stand from my privileged position, with my education and upbringing in this country, in my family, and judge people.

What I know is that there are loving people everywhere.

That’s why I feel at home in the world, at home when I travel.

Sometimes, especially this week, I sit in my bed in the morning and feel so connected and I naturally send love to you from my powerful heart.

Your heart is extremely powerful.

Did you know?

I know when I’ve written this before, one of my past clients and now friends said she actually felt a shift in her at that moment I sent my love.

I’d love to share this Loving Kindness Meditation with you that I posted on my FB page yesterday.

It is so powerful!!

Click here to access it.

When I’ve done this before with the Healthy + Powerfully Feminine women, they’ve not only loved it, but also have reported back amazing shifts.

Like receiving flowers and a card from someone one lovely lady had been experiencing conflict with.

Seriously, it’s powerful.

Do you believe it? Try it!!

Then let me know.

So I’ve covered Love and Sex, now about those miracles…

The miracle is the shift in perfection from fear to love.

In sending love to people we dislike, we’re sending love to ourselves.

We ask not that the other person change but that we change.

We ask that whatever is bothering us doesn’t anymore and we are able to return to a state of love, releasing the fears that bind us and keep us in a perpetual state of conflict and inner turmoil.

In getting over an ex, you ask not that the person loves you again, but that it doesn’t matter to you anymore.

You ask to be released from the egoic mind’s tightness and open into the expansiveness of a loving mind.

That’s how you will be able to release the past and keep your heart open to love again.

Come do the meditation with me here : (click the image to access it)

Then write and let me know what’s happening in your life and how you’re feeling or if you have noticed any subtle (or grand) shifts through doing this meditation.

Wishing you so much presence and power this week!

Enjoyyy my love.

From my wild and powerful heart to yours,
Mireille xxx

p.s.  Access your free copy of How to be Queen of your Love Life here, connect with me on Instagram here or on my FB personal page or business page here…. and book in for your coaching discovery session if you would love my help and guidance to be Healthy + Powerfully Feminine by clicking here.  So much abundance!!

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You LOVE YOUR BODY and feel amazing in your skin.

You know how to GO WITHIN and receive WISDOM.

Your MIND is CLEAR.

You use INTUITION to MAKE DECISIONS that feel right and follow through on them.

You ATTRACT positive experiences and men because you VALUE yourself enough to refuse what you don’t want.

You have TIME for YOU.

You LOVE the work you’re doing.

And your life feels beautiful and fulfilling, joyful and abundant!

From this place, I have found, you are able to receive the LOVE you deserve because you know your worth and you know who you ARE and you truly and deeply love yourself.

Love yourself and your own life first.

The coaching relationship is such a beautiful way to receive and to work on yourself and consciously create your authentic life.

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Hi I’m Mireille! I’m a Divine Living certified coach. I help women to not only create a life they love, but also to release unhelpful habits and compulsions, remove the blocks to success and be the woman capable of receiving her desires.

Many of the women drawn to work with me have been through a major transition – like motherhood, loss of a parent or a relationship break up – and are tired of struggling, feeling overwhelmed, drowning under to-do lists and responsibilities and lacking real joy and satisfaction.

My Healthy and Powerfully Feminine in-person course and online private coaching program assists women to know their authentic power and gives them the tools and techniques to create real and lasting change.

I am so passionate about helping women to create a life they’re wild about because I know the effect it can have on our spirit and health when we keep ignoring our true desires.

The coaching relationship is a sacred space to be open and explore what’s possible, while being supported, guided and held accountable. It’s an amazing way to transform all areas of your life and create emotional, spiritual and financial fulfillment.

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